Monday, August 16, 2010

And so it begins...

I've recently had an epiphany...I'm changing from a woman who valued material things like expensive handbags, labels that I couldn't afford, to someone who is appalled by such things. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoy looking at a gorgeous Kate Spade bag from a distance, but own anymore of them....I don't think so.

When did this change happen? I'd say the timing was around my recent July vacation to a camp that I've gone to since I was a child. Every year myself, my 3 boys and my husband (married since February 2010!) go to this wonderful escape we call camp on Hot Brook Lake, Danforth Maine.


It's about 5 hours away from us and we spent a glorious 7 days filled with fishing, drinking, reading, napping, eating and playing plenty of UNO at night....During this time I began to realize as I watched the locals enjoy the "bare" minimum they lived off that hey, maybe I can downsize some of my crap I have at home and learn to be less materialistic and more comfortable with "less".

During this vacation, we had the chance to go visit my mom and step dad at their new farm house in Maine. They recently bought the house, old farm and the 80 acres to begin their retirement years together. At first I was like "why would anyone want to live out in the middle of no where"..but I quickly realized that (a) its not in the middle of no where and (b) ITS AMAZING!


They have acres of raspberry bushes, enough garden space to have multiple gardens if they choose, an old chicken coop and outdoor run that could hold 20 chickens and a house that screams "Martha Stewart Approved!"

Sitting on their front porch I started to see my husbands point of view about living on less and living in a country setting. For years I've always said I wanted to end up living in NYC and enjoying the culture, food, entertainment and hustle and bustle it brings to its many. But now, I've completely changed my outlook and the thought of living in the city makes me sweat!

The next visit we made that added to my revelation was to my dad and my step moms amazing farm also way up in Maine. They live on approximately 23 acres, have a large barn, garage with an apartment over it (which they lived in for 6 months while building their house!) house with plenty of guest rooms and a huge wrap around deck facing the mountains....

They also have Black Angus beef critters they raise and sell.....oh and did I mention the HUGE garden they have and root cellar with all of their home canned goodies! I'm not talking a small root cellar, I'm talking "the end of the world" root cellar. The kind of stow away that can hold a seasons bounty, some great wine and then some. Plus, they have their own grow room for seedlings to jump start their garden early.



All of this combined made me come home after these 2 trips to realize a couple of things:

1. I want to have backyard chickens, 4 would be good....
2. I want our existing garden to be much larger, even get rid of half of our lawn if needed..who needs grass!
3. Hang my clothes out on a line..the old school kind that goes from my house to the big tree in our yard...(Done!)
4. Learn to can vegetables, pickles, jams & jellies! (taking a class this week!)
5. Make my life more simplified..as well as getting my 3 sons and husband on board.
6. Make and sell handmade soaps (learned through my stepmom Linda!)
7. Be happy with less!

I'm very excited to start this journey and am reading everything I can get my hands on as well as online postings and blogs.

Chicken Coop pics will be posted soon! Chickens will hopefully come to live with us mid September!

4 comments:

  1. Amazing Lee! As well as being a farmer, you can be a writer too! I see you on Oprah inspiring women and families that can relate to you. This post makes me smile from ear to ear! Can't wait to hear more. Your the best! -Kari

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  2. You go Lee Lee!! We've had a garden for a couple of years now and I love being able to walk outside and pick fresh veggies for dinner. The dog would goose chickens but that's not out of the question yet. Keep inspiring us!! - Sheri

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  3. I love it Lee. We have also been trying to simplify life. Kids will do that ... I would love for them to have all they need, not all they want and to understand the difference. We'll see ... look forward to reading more!

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  4. Thanks Nancy, Kari & Sheri! I feel like a little kid who's reading a book report out loud and everyone is listening..it makes me nervous just like in 6th grade....hopefully no one will comment on my flat chest out loud like they did back then : )

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